Emotionally Damaging Sayings

"Grow up & act your age"
"Stop your crying or I'll give you something to cry about"
"You're too old to have a mother/parent, family to take care of you"
"Rely on yourself, God, you don't need people to make you happy"
"Christmas is for kids, not for you"
"It's not their fault you had a miserable childhood/life"
"Stop acting like that, you're upsetting people"
"Stop swearing, you're upsetting people"
"You're being inappropriate"
"You're being a total drama queen, bitch...."
"Stop your complaining, others in third world countries are starving, worse off, etc..."
"Stop being a pig/baby, idiot"
"Eat everything on your plate or you eat nothing at all"
"Be grateful & stop wanting more"
"You're too much"
"Your expectations are too high"
"Others have it worse than you, so what are you complaining about?"
"It's all your fault...."
"Stop blaming God, people for your misery, mistakes"
"You should be straight, being gay/bisexual is not normal"
"You are always over reacting to everything or most things"
"Stop over reacting"
"Don't say you hate...."
"Love your mother/family, they brought you into this world"
"Everything happens for a reason"...(Yea right, name one!)
"Stop being so selfish, childish, foolish"
"Don't be so foolish, selfish, childish"
"You're not the only one with issues, hurts, problems"
"Love unconditionally, despite what you went through"
"Let kids be kids"
"Give kids a break"...(what a broken arm or a broken neck? LOL)
"How do you think I felt when...."
"Don't bring this up, it happened years ago"
"Stop dwelling on the past, or living in the past"
"You're just making excuses"
"What did you do to provoke him/her, them?"
"What is it this time? What do you want?"
"Stop being an attention seeker"
"You're doing _________ for attention"
"Stop wishing & start doing"
"Stop being so lazy"
"Don't be jealous, angry, sad, depressed, mad, hateful"
"You're so bitter, stop being so bitter"
"Do what you're told & do what I tell you"
"Stop making up outlandish tales/stories"
"That didn't happen to you"
"You're retarded, mentally ill for thinking/saying __________"
"Your jokes are dumb, your ideas suck"
"You have nothing to contibute to this world"
"You're good for nothing & for nobody"
"If anything bad happens to you, you deserve it"
"What did you do to deserve or provoke it?"
"You're asking for it"
"Don't resent people"
"Forgive people"
"Be grateful you are not in a wheelchair & you are not blind, etc..."
"Don't talk about your pain, nobody wants to hear it"
"You're bringing everyone down around you, be positive"
"Stop being so negative, you only attract what you put out"
"Focus on the positives in your life" (yea too bad the negatives out weigh them so far)
"You should know better"
"You gotta be the bigger/better person, don't stoop to their level"
"You give mixed signals, so therefore you attract abusers"
"You are only hurting yourself by being sad/negative, nobody else gets hurt by it"
"Only mentally ill people cry"
"You're a fucking loser"
"Stop grieving about that/him/her & get over it"
"If you don't like it, you can leave"
"Stop ruining everyone else's good time"
"Are you still upset/mad about that?"
"Stop feeling sorry for yourself & help the needy"
"Only YOU are responsible for your own happiness & for making things happen for you"
"Only YOU can make yourself happy"
"You have to love yourself first before someone else can love you" "(what am I dirt?)
"Stop expecting, wanting love, attention all the time"
"Nobody can be there for you 24/7, stop being so dependent on people"
"If you wanna destroy yourself, that's your choice"
"You are responsible for your own actions/choices'n stop blaming others all the time"
"You're being a big baby"
"Only kids have fun, you're too old to have fun"
"You're too old for hugs, affection, fun, love, companionship, family, people, a life!!"
"Stop being so trivial"
"You should care about things that are really important"
"It's only money, you don't need money"
"Don't depend on me, don't come to me for help/rescuing"
"Rescue yourself cause nobody else will"
"You're nobody until someone loves you"
"You order it, you eat it"
"Feel sorry for immigrants, they're new here"
"They: he/she don't know any better but YOU do"
"You're so demanding"
"You're too needy, stop being clingy, overly dependent"